Fashion and Style

Do you have a pair of jeans that’s a little too perfect? We’ve all had this problem: You may have 10 or 20 pairs of jeans, but there’s that one, favorite pair that you wish you could wear over and over, for all occasions. And the worst part is, in most cases, when you try to buy a second pair that is exactly the same, it’s never quite right. Some magical algorithm of mysterious, non-repeatable elements made that one pair of jeans absolutely perfect, and even the automated processes of clothing factories can’t make it happen more than once.

Here’s the thing: You don’t have to worry about it. By nature, jeans are meant to be worn more than other types of clothing. Unless you wear them on a hot day or spill something on them, you can usually get away with wearing jeans two or three times in between washing them. Sure, you might want to keep it to yourself sometimes, but no one’s paying as close attention as you might think.

Plus, in this day and age, there’s really no stigma attached to wearing jeans for many types of dress-up and quasi dress-up occasions. All you have to do is follow one of these tips, and you’ll have no problem dressing up your jeans. (more…)

Doctors and even nurses always criticize their need to wear boring white or plain uniforms all the time. They have to wear the same style of uniforms day after day. For some, this may sound childish but they really do feel that they have the need to be more fashionable even though they are at work. Of course, feeling good means that they can do their jobs better with so much efficiency. They would also love to be appreciated for their attire not only of their good performance at work. Hence, how to be fashionable and be a stand out in the hospital scene would be a welcome idea to them.

Fashion is not always about the clothes you wear nor the brand. A person who is wearing a landau scrub and white shoes may even look better than someone who is in a cocktail dress and high heels. What does this mean? It means that being fashionable is a choice whether you are wearing a plain uniform or a gorgeous and expensive dress. The first is the secret of posture. Posture emphasizes all the parts of your body from head to toe. It defines your aura and personality. It imbibes your positively and even your vision. Try to stand straight with your chin up. Walk and feel the difference. (more…)

There are many articles dedicated to fashion trends: trends for men or women, trends for kids and even for dogs. What about teens? Try to do a web search and you will see that finding nice guidelines about teen fashion trends is not as easy as it may seem. Why is it this way? The reason for this lack of information is teen fashion being more complicated than any other. Teenagers are fighting against society; they put a lot of effort to be different, but they also invent new trends and fashion styles.

The latest trend is EMO (emotional) style. EMO style is definitely for those who adore bright colors. Green, pink, red, yellow matched with black will undoubtedly make you noticeable. If you are into this style, you must have an appropriate hairdo: Zelda hairdo for girls and jet black mop top for boys. Pencil or at least cigarette-shaped jeans with studded belt is also a must-have. Rules for top are not that strict, you may choose anything you want, just be sure it’s close-fitting and bright colored. You must wear large amounts jewelry and it’s even better if you pierce your face (small lip ring would do perfectly). EMO style is perfect for those who wear glasses – it’s a great accent and EMOs love nerdy ones.

Hip hop never goes out of fashion. Music that speaks street language is definitely for young rebellious souls. Hip-hop style for teen boys and girls is rather different. (more…)

This week, my friend forwarded me a story about a young man named DJ, who was harassed by two policemen while on his way to work. He was harassed, jerked around, and scared out of his mind. The police officers were looking for ways to frame the young man. They have guns and they have the power to drag you to jail if you defied. To read the post and what happened to DJ click on this link: Police Harassment Orlando Police Tried to Frame Me.

Cops can be very intimidating. Some can twist your words and turn you into a villain. Sometimes, you don’t have time for their games and don’t want to go through jail time for speaking your mind, so you go along with them.

Unfortunately, some officers misused their authorities. I think they become jaded and callous over time. Even though these are my excuses for their cocky behavior, I believe with most professions, we can choose to let the negative side eat us up, or we can rise above it. In some instances when a policeman has gone abusive and beyond his role of protecting the public, he is due for retirement or a new career. It is unfair for innocent citizens to have to deal with cops with self-complexity and corruption issues.

I served on a jury once for a police harassment case of an innocent man because he disobeyed orders from a police officer. At first it was just the usual routine check, but the routine procedure turned into a bad situation. The un-armed man was attacked and beaten by the officer who was challenged by a power trip. The Mexican, who didn’t speak any English, was said to have dared to disrespect and disobeyed a police officer.

Don’t get me wrong, I am a typical black is black and white is white kind of person. I have genuine respect for people who serve the public. The nature of police work is dangerous and there is a lot to be said for the hours some cops have to work. I don’t have anything against cops. One of my girlfriends’ husbands is a cop. I have a close friend and a brother in laws that are cops. All these guys are normal, in the capacity that they have no hang-ups about their power or authority.

Like I said, there are cops that are just ready to get off the road and onto retirement. Did you get a chance to read about DJ’s story? What are your thoughts?

Thanks for stopping by today. My letter Ds for ABC Wednesday

When you are puzzling over the proper Valentine’s Day gifts, typically you think that of bound romantic items gift for her and some a lot of sensible items gift for him. However, there are actually some great gift ideas that job for each him and her. In fact, there are even some ideas that are wonderful gifts that the 2 of you may even share. Wanting for a present that’s suitable for a person or a lady or one thing that you’ll be able to share along with your spouse? Well, here are a few ideas tips Valentines gifts that are great for him or her.

A few ideas for the women!

1. If your man is watching his favorite sport or show on TV, don’t interrupt unless it’s during a commercial and you finish talking by the time the commercials are finished. They don’t mind if you talk to them, but your time is more flexible than the game or show they’re watching.

2. Yes, sometimes men tune out when you’re talking at length about something. Don’t get mad, they’re just not conditioned to listening to long dissertations about the latest Hollywood gossip, what the latest spring fashion is, or what friend A did to friend B. If the conversation isn’t about one of their favorites subjects, be it sports, cars, or themselves, chances are they’re going to zone out once in a while.

3. Give HIM something that he’ll appreciate. Not necessarily a cute stuffed animal or a tie. And it doesn’t have to be expensive either. Even if you just pay for dinner once in a while, he’ll appreciate it, unless he’s old school and insists on paying when you go out. In that case, you’ll have to find something else that will show him you care.

4. Dress up when you greet him at the door. You don’t have to be in an evening gown, but something that shows off your curves. Maybe even a tight pair of jeans, a revealing top and high heel. Bonus points when he finds out you’re wearing sexy underwear underneath after he throws you on the bed for a little early evening loving.

5. Make him his favorite dinner and serve it to him. You don’t have to do this all the time, but when you do, he’ll appreciate it. Bonus points if this leads to sex (also see Tip #4).

6. If your man is into sports and you’re not, learn a few of the basics of his favorite one and get him talking about it. Watch the occasional game with him. If it’s one you can participate in with him, do so. It’s a way for the two of you to bond on his terms.

7. Leave him little love notes. By e-mail or little paper ones. Just to show him you’re thinking about him.

And now some ideas for the men!

1. Getting your woman flowers is not just for special occasions or when you’re in the doghouse. Buy her some just because. She’ll appreciate them more when she doesn’t expect them.

2. Don’t be afraid to show affection in public (kissing, holding hands). So what if people are watching. You’ll be making them jealous and your woman will appreciate that you’re willing to show the world that you love them.

3. If your partner is talking about something, anything, try to concentrate on the conversation and not about how you’re going to ‘do’ her. There’s a time and place for that. Sometimes she just wants you to listen to her. How about it? Besides, you’ll get bonus points for listening to her in the middle of a crucial football game.

4. If you can’t afford, or don’t have the energy to go out dancing, or to a nice restaurant, go for a walk, stop in at the local ice cream shop and buy her a cone of her favorite ice cream. You don’t have to spend a lot of money. She just wants you to be with, and pay attention to, her.

5. When you go out for that walk, talk to her about the things she’s interested in. Listen to what she has to say. Ask questions. Get involved in her interests. Actually, this tip can be applied any time, but doing it when there are no other distractions will allow you to focus.

6. Prepare her favorite dinner and serve it to her. You don’t have to be a great cook. She’ll appreciate the effort, as well as the pampering. Zero points for cheating and buying it already prepared. Make it from scratch, lazy bones!

7. Buy her little things that mean something to her. Whether it’s her favorite chocolate bar, a cute key chain, or the book she’s been meaning to read. Giving her those unexpected little things endear you more and more to her because it shows you’re always thinking of her.

It doesn’t end there. These were just a few suggestions to get you started. Be creative. Get to know your partner better, so that you can romance them all the better. Maybe if every couple made the effort throughout the year, there would be less marital strife and fewer divorces.

If this has helped you, I’m glad to have made a difference in you and your partner’s lives. If not, I hope that you will find your way because knowing the pure love of someone is better than any material possession you could hope to have.